Sex Toys - History and Benefits

Posted by boyberm on June 19th, 2008

HISTORY OF SEX TOYS

Sex toys have been used for thousands of years and many believe they had first originated from Asia. However, it was not until the ancient Greece time that sex toys such as dildos and other phallic objects were first made popular. Evidence also suggests that the Romans were the first to mass produce sex toys for a commercial purpose. The sex toys produced during these ancient times were often made out of smooth stones, carved wood, bronze or any solid fillings wrapped around in leather. They were usually long or had an oblong shape like an egg. For lubricants, olive oil was the more common choice.

The term “dildo” was derived during the 14th century Italian Renaissance from the Italian word “diletto” which means pleasure. The use of sex toys continue to gain popularity throughout these times. Dildos made out of rubber first appeared during the mid 18th century during the Victorian times. These rubber dildos were a leap forward as they can be fashioned after the penis and were much more comfortable to use.

Also during this time, the vibrator was invented. It was however not intended for pleasure, but was used by physicians to treat a certain disorder in women known as “hysteria”. It was believed that this so-called psychological disorder could be treated by bringing the women to orgasm and the vibrator seemed perfect for the job. The first vibrators were steam powered.

By the early 19th century, more varieties of sex toys were introduced to the market and were featured in blue movies and erotic magazines. They were commonly advertised as “relaxation devices” to relieve stress and anxiety. By the 1940s, they were termed as “marital aids” and in 1960s, they were coming on strong as “massagers”. Since the 1980s, with technology growing in leaps and bounds and fueled by imagination and passion, many types of sex toys were created including those for men and other fetishes like bondage.

Today, there are more people aware of their sexuality than in any other era and thanks to these little gizmos and the internet, sex toys can be delivered discreetly and conveniently to your doorstep. The sex toys industry has come a long way with manufacturers constantly improving on their product line.

WHAT ARE THE BENEFITS OF SEX TOYS?

Millions of people throughout the world today have discovered sex toys to be a fulfilling enhancement to their sex lives. Humans are motivated by both pain and pleasure and sex toys can be a compelling reason to bring you to your peak of your sexual pleasure. Before we begin to illustrate the varieties of sex toys, it would be beneficial to know what motivates you.

Some of the benefits of sex toys :-

They can bring variety and help explore new ways of sexual intimacy. It brings the fulfillment of a satisfying sexual relationship which lubricates an intimate relationship.

Sex toys can increase your sexual fulfillment skills, complementing a sexual relationship.

They can also be used to spice up a relationship. Imagine receiving a sex toy wrapped in a romantic gift box instead of the usual tie-in-a-box.

They can help you orgasm faster and easier if you don’t orgasm often or find it difficult to orgasm with your partner. Afterall, vibrators were originally intended for this.

Sex toys can bring back the pleasure even when your partner is out of town.

Steven consults and provides advice to the online store http://www.SexToysNirvana.com which provides various adult toys and novelty products.


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A rabbit vibrator is essentially a regular vibrator with a whole bunch of extra features. The rabbit vibrator is designed especially for the needs of the woman. Rabbit vibrators truly stand out as one of the best sex toys for women. To see what they look like, go to http://www.TheAdultToyShoppe.com/vibrator2.htm

Rabbit vibrators usually have a rotating or gyrating head. The head is most often shaped like a penis to give a realistic feeling. Sometimes they have metal or plastic beads embedded in the shaft that vibrate or rotate. These beads serve to enhance the sensation of an orgasm. When the muscles of the vaginal wall contract around these vibrating or rotaing beads during an orgasm, the beads add extra sensations that you have to feel for yourself! The beads or ‘pleasure pearls’ are found only on a rabbit vibrator and are one of the features that make is so spectacular.

When shopping for a rabbit vibrator you want to be sure that the beads are made of metal and that they rotate on a fixed axis rather then vibrate loosely in the shaft. The reason for this is becuase the contractions of your vaginal muscles will squeeze the loose plastic beads together and they will no longer move, so in the end, it feels similar to a regular vibrator. The mounted beads continue to massage the vaginal muscles even during the orgasm! When it comes to a rabbit vibrator, you get what you pay for!

Another key feature of a rabbit vibrator is the clirotal stimulator. When these vibrators were first invented, they had little rabbits as the clitoral stimulator and the ‘rabbit ears’ are the part that flicker from the vibrations and stimulate the clitoris while the shaft of the vibrator is inserted vaginally.

It is proven that women experience easier and stronger orgams by stimulation of the clitoris and penetration at the same time.
The rabbit vibrator is designed especially for the needs of the woman. A hint for the rabbit vibrator: Turn it upside down and let the ‘rabbit ears’ flicker on your anal region!

Most rabbit vibrators have independant controls for the ‘rabbit ears’, and for the speed and swing of the vibrator shaft/head for a totally amazing sexual experience for each woman, beacause we are all different in our sexual response.

To make your experience with a rabbit vibrator comfortable make sure to use a water based personal lubricant. You can find a great selection of rabbit vibrators and personal lubricants at http://www.TheAdultToyShoppe.com.

Danielle Green is the owner of The Adult Toy Shoppe, an online adult toy and novelty store with a mission: “To make life more enjoyable through exploration of sexuality and relationship enrichment.” The Adult Toy Shoppe has superior customer service and provdies a discreet and secure shopping experience for women, men and couples in the USA.


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How a Romantic Surprise Can Keep Your Relationship Fresh

Posted by boyberm on June 17th, 2008

“Love withers with predictability; its very essence is surprise and amazement. To make love a prisoner of the mundane is to take its passion and lose it forever.”
–Leo Buscaglia

It is said that no matter what problems your relationship faces, if you can keep the romance alive, the rest can be worked out. And there is no quicker and easier way to rejuvenate romance than coming up with romantic surprises.

If you feel your relationship is in a rut, and everything in it is predictable, chances are - it’s been a long time since either of you surprised the other. So, what kind of a surprise is best for an instant rekindling of the passion you used to feel for each other?

That depends on the two of you and your relationship - what is best differs for each couple, as each relationship is unique. However, here are a few tips that will start you on the exciting path of creating your own distinctive, romantic surprises for your partner:

Little things and gestures matter more than we give them credit for. You do not have to make elaborate, expensive preparations for your surprise - use your creativity and imagination instead.

Your Touch: If there is one thing that longtime couples could use more of, it is touching. Remember how much intimate touching you would indulge in, early in the relationship? As couples become more comfortable with each other and the initial high of oxytocin drops; we cut short the intimate touching, and opt for quickies instead.

A Massage - especially an unexpected one, can work as the perfect pleasant surprise - all the more so if your partner is worn to the bone from an exhausting work schedule.

If you are planning a full body deep muscle massage for your partner, then remember to use a massage that contains either ginseng, or a heating feature. Want to get more adventurous? Add adult toys that both of you enjoy, and make it a game!

These are some of the features you can include in your romantic bedroom games - waterproof adult toys for your intimate bath, a book depicting various lovemaking positions, edible paints for licking off, and scented candles along with soft slow music for the ambiance.

The number and type of bedroom love games that you can create are limited only by your imagination - and your willingness (as well as that of your partner). Remember - both of you should be comfortable with the toys and games; else it will hardly increase intimacy (not to mention, your partner will not look forward to the next surprise).

The intimacy that results from your efforts should not spell the end of romantic surprises, however. On the contrary, remember that it is the surprise element that keeps the romance fresh!

Lynn Johnson recommends DeepMemories.com if you are interested in shopping for adult toys.


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