“I’m so bored!” the teenager exclaimed, having been temporarily deprived of his iPod, his personal computer, the TV, and his cell phone.
Without continuous input from outside, his life ground to a halt.
I don’t dispute the fact that he was bored, but it is an indictment of our culture, parenting, and kids, themselves.
When I was growing up I heard the expression that says “A smart person is seldom bored,” and I believe it to be as true today as when I was first exposed to it, and it definitely applies to effective tme managers
For example, what did our ancestors do, and what do WE do when we’re sitting around a fire in the great outdoors? We tell jokes and stories and create myths.
We teach and learn about our family histories, redolent with colorful and even courageous characters.
We entertain and educate ourselves.
Zen masters are known to sit in front of a bare wall, staring into apparent nothingness for hours on end.
An electronics or connectivity junkie might see them and whine: “How can they DO that?”
They’re involved in a journey that is fascinating, to them, a journey of discovery, mapping their interior landscapes, monitoring their breathing, their heartbeats, imagining the blood flowing through their veins and the universe scampering into and out of their bodies.
With all of this “nothing” happening, how can nothing be happening?
Someone once said life is what happens when nothing else is happening. So, for our kids and for ourselves I have only one wish:
Let life begin!
Dr. Gary S. Goodman is the best-selling author of 12 books, over 700 articles, and the creator of numerous audio and video training programs, including “The Law of Large Numbers: How To Make Success Inevitable,” published by Nightingale-Conant-a favorite among salespeople and entrepreneurs. For information about booking Gary to speak at your next sales, customer service or management meeting, conference or convention, please address your inquiry to: gary@customersatisfaction.com.
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